Parenthood of people with disabilities

Support and advice for relatives

Text last updated: 2025-05-27

Starting a family despite restrictions

Many people with disabilities or chronic illnesses want to start a family. They have a right to do so. Sharing life with children is a great joy, but it is not always easy to be a parent - especially if one parent has an impairment.

As a future grandparent or relative, perhaps you are thinking about this? Find out here where you can find advice and help to support your family.

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How family life can succeed

For parents with an impairment, everyday family life is sometimes particularly stressful. If you, as a grandparent or relative, offer your help in caring for and looking after the child, this is a great support for the family. But perhaps this alone is not enough? If so, professional advice centers will help you to obtain further assistance - taking into account the respective life situation and individual needs.

What support can parents with disabilities get?

For parents with physical limitations, mental illness or a mental disability, there are many support services that facilitate active and self-determined parenthood. The support is always based on the type and severity of the impairment and the individual circumstances. There are entitlements to financial assistance or material aids (e.g. barrier-free cribs, adapted changing tables).

A distinction is usually made between parental assistance and accompanied parenting when it comes to other services for families:

  • Parental assistance
  • Accompanied parenthood

Where can we find help and advice?

The advice centers for pregnancy issues and the services of open disability work offer competent support and advice on questions from relatives about parenthood of people with disabilities.

The website of the Federal Institute of Public Health (BIÖG) provides information on the topic of "Pregnant with a disability":

The website of the Bundesverband behinderter und chronisch kranker Eltern e. V. (bbe) is aimed at parents with physical or sensory disabilities.

The information portal "Accompanied Parenthood NRW" provides comprehensive information on accompanied parenthood.

Further information on parental assistance and accompanied parenthood can be found in the family guide from Aktion Mensch and on the website of the Bundesvereinigung Lebenshilfe e. V.