Parental leave can be taken by you as mother and father. The employer cannot refuse parental leave, not even for urgent operational reasons. Parental leave means: you do not have to work, but you are also not paid. Therefore, parental leave is only available to employees.
Self-employed people are not dependent on parental leave because they can decide for themselves about their professional commitment. As financial compensation, you can (also as self-employed) apply for parental allowance. However, unlike parental leave, this does not cover the entire first 3 years of your child's life.
Civil servants, soldiers and judges can also be entitled to parental leave. However, some special regulations apply to them.
If you have any questions, please contact the personnel department responsible for you at your authority.